Most of the time, high school students will go through a time when identity is difficult to achieve. And as adults, growing up to become someone they want to be can be painfully challenging when others around believe that finding self-identity is impossible. It’s so easy to follow the crowd; and so hard to become a leader. It's so easy to blend in, and so hard to stand out. People can encourage others to be themselves, but no one ever mentions the obstacles that must be faced. Negative stereotypes burn confidence in people’s self-appearance and hurt dreams.